I live by the ‘everything happens for a reason’ philosophy but I cant get my head around this one

What baffles me is WHY! If everything happens for a reason, why was this coincidence happening, why did I find myself in a celebration environment at the exact time of egg transferral? What was the meaning behind it? The reason it was happening?

Was this about being prepared to give up things or was it about celebrating life and being light and happy and not not being too focussed on the IVF .. its got me, I cant find the right approach to it.

When life’s giving you the finger..

What to do.. sometimes its like this, sometimes like that.. its all ups and downs and ins and outs.. light dark, sweet sour, happy sad, good bad, right wrong, heavy light, quiet noisy.. one only exists because of the other..what ever the feeling it will pass.. hard to see when life is biting you on the ass I know..

Alpha Inventions What A Gem!

Basically it allows bloggers who would never come across your blog, to have a little taste of what you write about. And it gives you the same opportunity. I am really enjoying it, its great fun to spend a few mintues browsing other bloggers material. Ive come across some great stuff.

Support World AIDS Day 1st Dec 2008 – Dont Turn Your Back

33 Million people in our world have AIDS…50 % are women… Young people (under 25 years old) account for half of all new HIV infections worldwide.

AIDS Does Not Discriminate – Children, Women, Men, Old, Young, Black, White, Sick, Healthy, Gay, Straight ….. Anyone can become infected… On December 1st – World AIDS Day Lets come together, without judgement to find the solution Show Your Support

IVF after 40 Step By Step Information

The tests, the ivf drugs, the reactions to the ivf drugs, the Doctors suggestions, the alternate therapies, the positive affirmations and meditations used, what happens on what days of the cycle, its all here.

And its positive! For those of you who have been feeling absolutely petrified to read information on the net for fear of it ‘bringing you down’ I hope my posts will give you the positive feeling you deserve and that is so essential for the IVF process to bring results.

I’m Great You’re Great she says

Reminding ourselves we are wonderful is something many of us forget in the hustle and bustle of everyday life, though as lousie hay points out.. its really important to find the time or we begin to suffer the consequences.

Sneak Peek At Future Fashion

Hats of to designer Adriana Bertini for her ingenius creativity.

Calling All Adventurous types

Do hotel catagories like underwater,cave, lighthouse, palace,igloo,fantasy, prisons, designer,crazy or views to die for sound super intriging to you?

Its absolutely perfect for those whose dream holiday destinations are places so unusual that no one you know has ever heard of them nor ventured anywhere even remotely close by.

IVF at 41 – Relaxed Positive Determined

Easier said than done sometimes, but its a must. Im using postive affirmations which I say daily when I wake up and any time throughout the day when I feel fear/worry/insecurity rising. Im also listening to a guided meditation cd 3 times a week and bought a beginners yoga dvd which I do 3 times a week. This combination is really doing the trick. Since being determined, positive, calm and relaxed are qualitites we need to learn anyway if we are to be great parents, I figure NOW is a great time to start mastering these skills!! Where our energy flows reality goes!!

President Obama’s vision of change reached across oceans

Barack Obama was voted in as the 44th President Of the United States Of America and its one of the most significant events i have witnessed. Well done America! Be proud. I am very proud of you. Today on this most historical day, you gained in me a great fan.